Dear Kisal ;

Hi, thanks for your kind words. No , no one has helped or attempted to help us. It is so lonly at this end.

I really did not think that anyone would . But  With all the people out there who make more money then they can spend in a lifetime, you would think they would try to help someone like us, struggling so desperatly not to loose our homes and everything we own, and it's all because we weren't lucky enough to have good health, or we were poor for so long and struggled with stress trying to make ends meet and not loose everything, that now our health suffers because of it, and we can no longer work, as much as we would love to have our health and strength back, and be able to work. We can't even get  health coverage to try and get better. If someone with a good job and some money to spare would see it in their heart to help us , they could  use the money they give as a tax write off for them and therefore would not even cost them anything. I try to have faith that GOD will see us through somehow. We are at the end of our rope. trying to give every penny including our food money , not to be on the street, and the stree od it all is so taking it's tool on me physicaly ... 

I wish you all the luck, and hope it works out for you somehow.  as of tomorrow I will no longer be able to get on here, as we are loosing our phone service tomorrow.  BEST WISHES.

If the person offering to help someone by having this person  join a web site ,is on the level, may GOD bless him for his kindness... and my hat is off to him .  I have been hurt and floored by peoples rotten , evel , backstabbing ways, that I personaly could never trust like that again. I guess the older you get the more you learn and sadly there is so much  I wish I had never learned. I so miss that inocent and trusting time. If this is a scam , I would like to say to this person , PLEASE do not hurt people who are already hurting and desperate. I just last night spent hours trying to find someone at any of the many local  churches we have here , to get $5.00  of gas to my husband who was stranded at work and did not have enough gas to get home, and I was going to pay the  $5.00 back  thursday in 3 days. NO ONE WOULD HELP !!!!.... Churches have become social clubs, membership required. That is why I am not a member of a church, I am sick of hearing all that hot air . If I found a paster who is willing to put his words  into action , I would be there with bells on.  My Husband  had to drive home knowing he would not make it , and then  walk the remaining 15 miles home ...   Many people have no idea how  much it hurts to be struggling. I am close to getting on disability , but it takes time and in the mean time we are struggling so hard trying not to loose our home, or our electric, we had to take out a pay day loan to pay our electric 3 mo. ago  and then had to take out another the folowing weak to pay that one off with and it has become a vicious circle. We now have taken out pay day loans every week, and having to pay an extra $50.00 each time and it just keeps getting worse. We now owe the pay day loan people $300.00...  next weak and again when we pay that have to take another one to make up for it.  We are driving on expired plates allready and if we get caught and fined , we are tottaly lost.  We are sooooo TIRED desperatly trying to make it through till I get my dissability ....  Any way my best to Every one here.

hello;  wish I could help you financialy , but my life if falling apart financialy around me too. I do know if things do not work out somplace where you are, somtimes it helps greatly to get out and go somwhere else. I do know each state had different policies as far as what is required for licences . jobs etc... If there are no jobs for your boy friend their, it may be best to move somewhere else. I know that is easier said then done, if you have anything to sell, to make the money for gas to leave, you might want to think about that. You might want to get on the internet to look for jobs accross the country, there are sights that carry classifieds from every news paper in the country, as well as job sights like that too...  If either of you could find work elsewhere, you might be able to get help with gas to get there if you have a job waiting for you there, through Salvation Army, Saint Vincents , or a local church..  Now I have no idea if any of those places in your area are helpfull, I here in Mo. have not gotten any help from any one for anything . We are about to lose our electric, home, and phone due to loss of work because of flooding and the ice storm this past winter. We had just moved here from NY after the tower attacks, to get our lived devistated by a tornado and we struggled to recover when the ice storm hit our area hard, to top it off there was much flooding  here too, this cost my husband many days of pay, because when the company does not work , he does not get paid. I have heart problems and fibermialga and can not work...  My husband also has a serious hernia but no medical, so in the mean time he just has to keep working and hes hernia get worse. We are older and have a very cheep house we are renting ,and my husband does have work here , no real pay, but better then nothing, We have all our friends of 30 years, and our son and his family all here, Sadly it is a very poor state and everyone is struggling now with the gas prices and cost of living, that no one can help . but with our friends, famli and all ,  we can not move. But for you,  Some towns have NICE shelter, for families where you and your boy friend could stay and work  and save up enough to get your owne place  I know St Charles Missouri , near St Louis had a very nice one with private rooms and they really helped you get work and save up to get your lives back , but I am talking 25 years ago, I don't know if they still even have one any more. Since you guys are young and unattached to a particular state sounds like, you have opptions. I would look into other states news pappers for jobs and rental costs, rent varries SO MUCH from town to town..  we have paid $700 for a 1 bedroom apt in places where average pay was 5.00 a hr. whereas other places the rent was only $250 for the same ,and people still made 5.00 a hour. I sincerely wish you the very best.  I SO wish I could help...  I really have lost all faith in people, I always felt we down here were ment to be GODs eyes ,hands and feet, and mouths, and I want to be a part of that , because he does not have many people left down here to do his work, I would love to be one of those people.... but my hands are tied. I can't even help myself and I have begged and begged for help , pooring my hearts out time and time again and no one cares. But I know GOD does and he will make a way.  God will send someone our way and see us thru. Right now we don't even have enough gas money for the 2 weeks for my husband to get to work.  Don't know how we will servive. But again  you are young and can move around, take advantage of that and make a good living somplace where you can is what I would suggest... I don't know how you feel abought that, maybe you really want to stay where you are , That is your disission to make. What ever your choices I wish you the best... Hope all your dreams come true. VERY SINCERELY; VERY TIRED FAMILY.

 Hello ;  We are survivors of the Sept. 11th tower attacks, afterwhich we moved back to Missouri , only to have our lives torn appart by a Tornado that devistated our town of Jackson Mo..My husband and I are having our 30th wedding anniversary this sept. , and have made it through many  financial pot holes throughout the years, through faith and hard work. We are trying to recover on our own, but living in todays economy is hard enough ,  recovering all alone today is becoming imposible .   I have serious herat problems and severe joint and muscle pains and therefore can not work.  My husbands's job does not pay much , we are just making our bills.  Right now in May / June  of 2008, due to lost work because of severe folloding and  the ice storms that our area has suffered , we are a month behind on our rent which is $300.00, and our elect. which is $246.00, and now our cars licence plate has expired , which means we have to pay $60.00 for our county taxes, $45.00 for the plates, and $75.00 for insurance before we can get it plated....  We also have a payday loan out for $300.00 , that every 2 weaks we have to pay off and get a new loan from them  , to cover the money we used to pay the first one off . We are also in nead of a car battery, and some  car repair.  We were counting the  tax stimulous check to bail us out , but now they told us it was taken for back taxes they claim we owe from way back when...  We do not have time to fight this , we are drowning now... We are so tired of fighting to live.  There is no fight left in us . I am also strugling with having  endured a lot of losses last year, I lost  several loved ones , one after the other.  We use to love people, and had so much faith , now that We find my ourselves  at the mercy of others we are finding   a cold and lonely world out there. If anyone has any advise on where we can turn to get a grant or long term loan for help with theese bills , it would be  greatly appreciated. THANK YOU FOR YOU TIME.  Beverly.